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A Dream Come True or Just Retirement Perks? by Sam Koo

 



Growing up, I often heard that relentless pursuit makes dreams come true. For many of my young friends, that dream meant professional success and wealth. I didn’t give it much thought—until my perspective shifted after becoming a journalist.

When I joined The Associated Press in New York in 1968, I worked grueling overnight shifts on the AP’s Broadcast News Desk. Still unmarried, I spent my free evenings at Lincoln Center, Carnegie Hall, the Metropolitan Opera, and the New York City Ballet. At the Met, I heard legendary voices—Renata Tebaldi, Birgit Nilsson, Joan Sutherland, Plácido Domingo, Richard Tucker, and Franco Corelli. Leonard Bernstein still held court at the New York Philharmonic, followed by Pierre Boulez, whose programming introduced me to modern repertoire. But returning to work after exhilarating performances was exhausting, and later, my new 4 PM-to-midnight shift all but erased my social life and concert attendance.

And so, a dream was born: to spend a year fully immersed in music, opera, and museums in New York and beyond. It took 50 years to make it happen, delayed further by the COVID-19 pandemic.

Now, I’m finally living that dream. For the past three years, I’ve held subscriptions to Carnegie Hall, the Metropolitan Opera, and the New York Philharmonic, along with memberships to The Met, MoMA, the Frick Collection, and the Guggenheim. My wife, Myung, and I attend about 30 concerts a year, including chamber music—each one a cherished experience. Our love of arts and culture extends beyond New York. In Italy, where I spent nine years as an AP correspondent, and during occasional visits to South Korea, we seek out concerts, museums, and galleries. Even in Richmond, Virginia, our other home, we enjoy fantastic museums and occasional performances. Now retired after decades of performing on the international stage as a concert cellist, my wife, Myung (Myung-Wha Chung), and I carefully plan what we will hear and see—an enjoyable ritual.

These outings and discussions have also rekindled my long-neglected reading list, focusing primarily on cultural history and artist biographies.

Undiluted bliss? Not quite. The world weighs heavily on me. The senseless destruction of lives, the shameless pursuit of national interests over the common good—these realities darken the news and dampen the optimism I strongly felt during my years at UNICEF and the UN. The very institutions I served—The Associated Press, UNICEF, even Voice of America—face relentless attacks. The hopeful vision of a connected, cooperative global village has faded.

Still, music and the arts remain my refuge. Without them, I’m not sure how I would carry on.

I attach a few photos of my dreamy life these days, at Doreen Lobo's request.

I share a few photos of my dreamy life these days for sharing with XUNICEF.

Late arrivals to a concert due to road closure

At Morgan Museum's Franz Kafka retrospective


At Lincoln Center and Carnegie Hall (with soloist Seong-Jin Cho)

At Seoul Stone Art Museum

Backstage with American Ballet Theater's prima ballerina Hee Seo

At sculptor Antonio Canova Gypsoteca Museum, North of Venice.

With a friend before La Traviata by the La Fenice (Venice) Opera, Seoul.

Myung with Maestro Riccardo Muti.


Comments

  1. Lovely article and photos. May you continue to enjoy all the music, theatre, and other aspects of the art world!

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  2. Wow, Sam, what great retirement!
    Loved your account of the post-retirement journey and envy your artistic life.

    But let's not give up on the "hopeful vision of a connected, cooperative global village"!

    Methinks goodness will triumph over evil eventually --- despite the downward spiral we see at present with Trump & his ilk around the world.

    In the long history of humanity, there have been many occasions when we have gone a few steps backward, but many more steps forward. Let's hope the current polycrisis will be a blip in the long march of human civilization.

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  3. “When I look forward I am a pessimist but when I look backwards, I am an optimist.” James Buchanan

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    1. Dear Kul,

      Thank you!
      You may not have noticed 😁, but I’m an optimist — and have always been one.
      Still, the endless punches and shocks from Washington are wearing even me down. Add to that the grim AI warnings from Harari and company, and it’s a lot to stomach.
      The latest blow? The reckless order to start mining the seabed.
      I covered the grueling UN negotiations on the Law of the Sea — brilliantly navigated by Ambassador Shirley Amarasinghe of Sri Lanka (yes, a man) — and I know firsthand just how dangerous any unilateral move really is.
      When will you be in NY next?
      Take care Kul.

      Sam

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  4. Thank you Sam, for this wonderful slice of a beautifully woven retirement dream and the fulfilling of it. I appreciate hearing of the refuge the arts provide you and your wife great joy and peace — at this time of turbulence. To Doreen, you may have come up with a wonderful idea for a series to build on here, from colleagues. How/where does everyone find their refuge, calm, inspiration and reenergize during this privileged chapter of our lives. Be well. Wivina 🙏

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    1. Dear Wivina,
      Thank you kindly. Blessings! Sam

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  5. Umberto CancellieriApril 27, 2025 at 3:35 PM

    Once again we are on the same waive length Caro Sam. Culture, culture and culture. Peace has two legs: culture and science. Un abbraccione,

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    1. Caro Umberto,
      Grazie. Sembriamo sempre andare d'accordo. Spero tanto che potremo rivederci presto.

      Un forte abbraccio.

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  6. Greetings Sam & Myung, lovely to read your uplifting article about following the arts as your dream destination in retirement. BRAVO and BRAVA to both. Speaking of which Nadia and I still remember fondly the evening with you in NY when Myung gave us an impromptu short recital on her cello. We were most impressed and you put the cherry on the event by giving us a CD which Myung , her sister and brother recorded a series of delightful music. We kept this until lately when we do not have a CD player anymore. and have become Spotify adherents....advanced technology, eh? In any case your brief also brought back memories of our own 16 years in NY where we also benefited from the rich cultural facilities. Things slowed down a bit in Montreal, but we maintained a regular mix of opera, concerts and theatre for some time with an advantage of having both French and English events. Stay well and keep healthy with music and arts...

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    1. Dear Fouad and Nadia,

      So lovely to hear from you. Montreal seems like a wonderful place to be, especially now. Looks like CDs have gone out of fashion. None of our grandsons woukd like to take over our collection but they show interest in our old carpets 🤣🤣. Thank you for the update. Myung sends love ❤️❤️❤️
      Take care Fouad.

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  7. Beautiful article, Sam, and congratulations for your Dream Achieved! Your love for the arts, music and history is so vibrant and I celebrate you for creating a life around your passions together with your wife Myung! May you continue to live the dream, and may that be your anchor in these times of chaos and destruction. We must be stronger and pulled by a vision of good, rather than pushed by the pain of meaningless shows of power.

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  8. Sam, An absolutely delightful account of how you and Myung have found such joy and peace in your love of the arts. Until retirement in London, my wife Diane and I living in such venues as Jakarta, Bangkok, Manila, Delhi, Rangoon and Islamabad, had to content ourselves with occasional home leave stops in Europ and the States. But even with only these occastional opportuinities I have been able to enjoy opera, symphony and even occasional ballet in such far flung locations as London, Florence, Tashkent, Santa Fe, Beijng, Minsk and more. We are most fortunate indeed, those of us who find refuge and peace in the arts. Best wish for many, may stiring arias and concertos. Steve Umemoto

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    1. Thank you, Steve. Your story could be even richer and fuller — why not offer a sequel? 😀😀

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  9. Thanks for sharing sam I am a lover of Museums and operas but have not done even half of your visits. So seeing them through photos were a visit. Unfortunately the African American museum in DC is under attack it was a beautiful rendering of history, strength and openness of the American people!
    I remember fondly my official visit to Tokyo office and your meeting us and carol bellamy at the airport and your diplomatically carrying her bag much against her independence. Such great family we were!

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    1. Hi Rohini,
      I miss you. Is anything safe anymore—hamburgers, maybe? I totally forgot about Carol’s no-nonsense bag-carrying code and my desperate attempt not to look like the clueless sidekick."
      😅. Thanks for the story. Take care....

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  10. Many thanks, Sam, for sharing your story, especially your love for culture - music and art. I missed opera and theatre when we moved to the island, even though recordings helped to provide a bridge (- we even had invited friends to an evening at the "Met on the Deck", viewing The Magic Flute. Most friends were unfamiliar with opera...).
    Recently, house and garden work leave little time for culture, but I do enjoy the nature around us and the sounds of the birds (and chicken...).
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    1. Dear Horst,
      Thanks—sounds like a case of greener pastures! I follow your Facebook posts and can’t help but envy your idyllic island life.
      Do you ever make it to New York? If so, do let me know when you're headed this way.
      Take care! Sam

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