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Our New Life in Spain : Oscar Fernandez and Susan Csikos

Last August I published an article in News & Views about the visit my wife, Susan and I made to Valencia (Our Travellers of the Week - Oscar Fernandez and Susi Csikos : Nuestro Viaje a Madrid y Valencia, Espaรฑa). As I explained in that article, we were already considering a move to Valencia and used the trip as an opportunity to explore the city and its neighborhoods. We came back from our trip convinced that Valencia would be an excellent place to live.


Now 10 months later here we are in Valencia." We arrived on January 2nd and it is already starting to feel like home.

Why Spain? Well, for one thing. Spain is my blood. My ancestors migrated from Spain to Cuba in the early 1900s. Both my paternal and maternal grandparents came over from Galicia, Asturias, and Zaragoza.

When I left Cuba as a teenager, fleeing the oppressive Castro’s communist regime, I first came to Madrid, where I spent 6 months. I fell in love with the country then. At the time, I had a spiritual feeling that, somehow, I had lived there in another life. I felt it then and always knew that one day I’d come back to live in Spain.



But, what about Susan? Susan has always wanted to come back to live in Europe. She has lived in Europe and speaks four languages (English, Hungarian, French, and German). Now, she is busy learning Spanish, and naturally is doing quite well - both in speaking and in comprehension.

Was it push or pull? The US political environment of the last few years was certainly a 'push' factor. But the ‘pull’ factors were even stronger - the rich history of Spain, the allure of both the inner cities and coastal towns, the variety of fresh and wholesome foods from all parts of the country, and the very reasonable cost of living. Madrid is one of the more expensive places to live in Spain and prices there are still 53% cheaper than New York City. In Valencia the cost of living is even less. Source (Cost of Living Comparison).


Valencia is Spain’s third-largest city after Madrid and Barcelona – the total population of its metropolitan region is around 835,000. Yet Valencia offers the quality of being both a less populous area, tourist, and traffic wise, but also a thriving urban city with cultural and educational institutions. It boasts a charming historical center called El Carmen with a rich mixture of Christian, Roman, and Moorish architecture and archaeological sites.



Only a few kilometers away from the city center are beautiful beaches which are easily accessible either by local transportation or a bike ride. These beachfront areas are vital for me as a Cuban and simply as one who loves the seacoasts. All year around, one can find locals coming down to La Playa for a walk along its long “boardwalk” or to enjoy one of its abundant seafood or paella restaurants.

Food - Spanish food is also a major pull factor for us. Spain’s everyday food culture and variety of tastes are tremendously appealing and healthy.



We are especially excited about the availability of fresh seafood.. In Europe, only the Portuguese eat more seafood than Spaniards. Fortunately, the seafood at markets in Valencia are equally attractive. Seasonal and plentiful produce is also spectacular—for instance, tomatoes are in season from March to November and for figs, the sweetest I’ve ever tasted, their season runs from July to September.
 


In the markets, everyone is so friendly and are willing to engage into a quick social conversation. I’ve become fond of the vendors in the Mercados and am getting to know many of them on a first name basis.

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One of the stall owners, a very nice Venezolana who migrated here, introduced us to our newfound favorite cheese “Olavidia by Besos y quesos,” which in 2021, in the International Cheese Festival in Oviedo, Asturias, won the prize for the “Best Cheese in the World.” I also love finding out about the local wines, and the different grades and levels of olive oil ( as much as I have always loved olive oil, I had no idea about the intricacies and details involved in its production).

Climate - Another huge ‘pull’ is Valencia’s subtropical weather. Valencia’s weather is very similar to the weather in Fort Myers, Florida where we lived 12 years after my retirement from UNICEF. It rarely rains in Valencia, which ironically is something you start to miss. We do miss the rain but do love those beautiful blue skies!

Taxes - Spain does not tax UN Pensions. Of course, you may still need to pay taxes to your own government. As US citizens, we are taxed by the US wherever we live in the world. For many other governments you may be taxed for a varying number of years when you live outside your home country.

Transport - Traveling to the nearby areas by train is convenient, but lately we’ve also taken to renting a car. We plan to extend our visits farther inland now that the temps are cooling down.

Spain is strongly committed to public transport. The nation has the largest high-speed rail network in Europe. There are also extensive inter-city bus routes. Cities and provinces also invest heavily in public transport. Even smaller cities usually have local metro/train/trams. Cities like Valencia have an abundance of taxis everywhere and they are also very reasonable. We seem to get around mostly with taxis if not walking.This infrastructure means that we do not need to buy a car.

Traveling to major European cities is easy and fares are reasonable. Valencia’s location is ideal in that, if you do have the desire for a bigger city, you can take the high speed train to Madrid or Barcelona, both are a comfortable 2-hour ride away.

One negative point for us and for UNICEF colleagues reassigned here is that Valencia does not have direct flights to NY, where we have our families and Susan her business. We are coping with it. We either take the train to Madrid or fly through Paris and then on to NYC. Hopefully, demand for direct flights will grow in the future as more and more UN and UNICEF staff are stationed here.

Crime - Spain has a very low rate of crime. Of course, there is pickpocketing and petty theft in tourist areas, but violent crime is rare. People generally feel comfortable walking home at night by themselves.

An important part of the low crime rate is that Spain has sane and rational gun laws. The only guns permitted are those appropriate for sport shooting or hunting. Gun permits are issued only after the potential gun owner passes medical and psychological evaluations and is tested on gun safety. What a concept! Wish the USA would pay attention!

Health - Spain has a robust health care system. It is ranked as the 7th most efficient in the world. I have already put it to the test and can attest to this claim. However, should one have any serious medical issues that need attention, honestly, I would recommend returning to the USA to your trusted medical sources.
 


History - As you travel around the many beautiful towns near Valencia, you can feel the presence of the Romans everywhere, the fortresses, aqueducts, amphitheaters, roman walls, circus, etc. You can see many of the archaeological ruins and feel the battles. I’m interested in becoming a Roman history buff and in our monthly travels we try to visit these nearby towns where they were established for hundreds of years. So far, we’ve been to Tarragona, which was the capital of the Roman Empire in Hispania, Peรฑรญscola, Alicante, Ibiza, and Sagunto (where the Romans, in the 3rd century BCE, were attacked by Hannibal, and started the Second Punic War). Next target for my studies - the Moors.


FiestasSpain is truly the land of fiestas. Festivals here in Spain are not just celebrated for cultural or religious reasons. They are often spontaneous. You can find unexpected flamenco street parties anywhere. They bring people together and create a sense of belonging in the community.



Las Fallas - I certainly felt that sense of community in the last Las Fallas festival here in Valencia. It brings people from all over the world. Walking the streets of Valencia during Las Fallas, I heard English, French, Italian, German, and many different Spanish accents.

My experience in Las Fallas, definitely a staying factor. This was my comment on Facebook just before the start of Las Fallas.

“By a long stretch, it is the biggest festivity I’ve ever seen. There are drinking kiosks and food stalls everywhere in the city, with tapas, churros, and great food, all the bars and taverns stay open and are packed with people, the streets were jammed, every so often you find bands playing great music, people from everywhere, Spanish, French, Brits, Italians, Germans, Argentinians, Venezuelans, Cubans, me! Beautiful, elaborate effigies are everywhere! I went out early; it was 8:00pm. I was told that at 10:00 pm, you couldn’t walk the streets because of how crowded they get. It was incredible! And this is in the entire city of Valencia! And the most amazing thing about it is that Las Fallas have not even started officially! Las Fallas start March 15 and ends with a Big Bang on the 19th!”

We recently visited Alicante for a few days. Upon our arrival we were pleasantly surprised to find that they were having their own version of Las Fallas; in Alicante it is called las Fiestas de San Juan.

XUNICEF is Here Already

By the way, we have XUNICEFers near us, Saad Houry in Alicantes and Sikander Khan in nearby Cumbre del Sol. We communicated and we are committed to get together socially, including XUNICEFers from right here in Valencia, our very good friends Clara y Valentin, who worked and retired from our UNICEF Geneva Office.

People here in Spain seem content overall and it shows in all their community festivals. We feel the happiness ourselves! Yes, it’s beginning to feel like home.

A Reunion Here Someday Soon?

Lastly, the question begs, at some point, is a XUNICEF reunion in the works in Madrid /Valencia /Barcelona? We have a few XUNICEFers here in the region that would be willing to help us organize a reunion. Of course, it would be proposed for our group to vote on it.

Click here to visit Oscar and Susi's full album of photos of their new life in Spain. 

Comments


  1. What a good story. It really makes me want to put Valencia on my list of travelling destinations. My brothers, Saad and Sikander, have both been saying I should move there, as well. But not so fast, Panama is just too good to me.

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  2. Hi Oscar and Susan, Great to know that you have successfully relocated yourself and feeling at home. Your offer of X Unicefers are most timely after the lull for the last couple of years due to Covid. Please do organise it and we certainly vote and encourage others to support the idea. Let us look forward to 2023 reunion in Spain and Portugal an optional addition may be!

    Gourisankar

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  3. Lovely story, Oscar. I like your emphasis on the "pull" factors. You almost make me want to get on a plane and visit!

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  4. Susan/Oscar: Thank you for this wonderful narrative of Valencia and your new life there. Hope someday we'll meet here, or again in Guatemala. Love from Ines & Juan Aguilar

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  5. Oscar, you're already tempting me to make Spain my retirement home. Loved going through your narrative!

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  6. Thank you for your beautiful story and the awesome pictures. I have seen parts of beautiful Spain (Madrid,Barcelona,Alicante, and a lot of South of Spain). My best friend Carmen Alvarez and her husband Mogens Munck (both worked for UNICEF Afghanistan in Kabul) now live in Alicante. I believe Victor Soler-Sala lives not too far from Alicante. Best of luck to you and your wife in beautiful Spain. Enjoy!

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  7. Lovely story Oscar, enjoy Valencia and hope to meet you at the next Reunion!

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  8. Wonderful piece, Oscar. Am happy you have found your piece of paradise in Valencia. Loved the place as I've been there a few times. Will certainly join reunion over there. Have a drink of horchata on me!

    Gia Mendoza-Reeves

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  9. Great article. Would love to come to Spain for reunion.get well soon

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  10. Muy estimados Susi y Oscar. Gracias por tu lindo recuento en tu nuevo pais. Por supuesto estariamos animados a visitar si es que se organice una reunion de nuestros colegas en xunicef. Felicidades y carinyo y un gran abrazo. Jim Mayrides

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  11. Acabo de pasar dos semanas en Valencia, adonde seguรญ el ejemplo de nuestro compaรฑero Jim Mohan, lo que es de utilizar el tiempo de la jubilacรญon para tratar de aprender otra lengua. Puedo os recomendar sinceramente esta ciudad muy hermosa y interesante, como se dice Oscar. Ojala que puedamos visitarla para reunirnos! Que idea encantadorissima! Saludos a todos, Maggie Black

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  12. Wow. You really made me love Valencia more and more and more.

    I would love to join the REUNION if it is scheduled during the summertime.

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  13. Many thanks Oscar for the lovely write up and the visuals! They add life to letters...... wishing you a quick and full recovery.

    Waiting for my brothers, Bernt & Sharad and others to visit soon!

    The Costa Blanca certainly is the prettiest part of the Mediterranean coasts of the Iberien peninsula! It will be a pleasure to welcome colleagues to a reunion in the coming period! In the meanwhile, we are planning to have a mini reunion of colleagues who are residing in the Valencian Community, soon. Waiting for Oscar´s return from NY.

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  14. Oscar, get well soon. Thanks for sharing your pictures and writes on Valencia with us. Yes, my husband Guru and I vote for Xunicef reunion 2024 in Valencia/ Spain. Sree

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  15. Wow, Oscar wonderful description and tempting to visit Spain. You brought life to your description. Certainly a big yes for the next exUNICEFers meet.

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  16. Thank you for very interesting presentation of Valencia and its joys. I support the idea of re-union in Spain.

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  17. Wonderful article and indeed a beautiful part of Spain. It’s a great reunion location, for all the reasons you mention. I’d suggest staying away from the summer months that are extremely hot in this part of the country, as well as being extremely busy given peak tourist season. Look forward to hearing more about possible reunion plans. Wivina

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  18. Hi Oscar it is really nice of you to share with us the beauty of Valencia- you and Susi new abode- its historic architecture,its culture, its friendly people, its beautiful beaches,its food mnarket,its cuisine etc. All these attractions including its music and its festival las Fallas make Valencia a must visit city.
    You and Susi should be prepared to have many mini reunions of ExUNICEF including myself.
    By the way the Tourism Office could not find a better salesman to sell Valencia as a beautiful and welcoming city with much human warmth.
    A sterling idea to have the next XUNICEF reunion in Valencia. Let us hope that the group will agree.
    In passing may I say that you are gluttonous for work by making this suggestion.Be prepared.

    Warmly

    Fritz

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  19. Such a lovely article, Oscar! I totally share your passion for Spain, having chosen Malaga for my new residence! Not a day goes by that I’m not thrilled with the possibilities of a new life here! The idea of a reunion sounds great and Valencia would be ideal! Thanks for sharing the good news about your move and for your beautiful words about your new city!

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  20. Such a lovely article, Oscar! I totally share your passion for Spain, having chosen Malaga for my new residence! Not a day goes by that I’m not thrilled with the possibilities of a new life here! The idea of a reunion sounds great and Valencia would be ideal! Thanks for sharing the good news about your move and for your beautiful words about your new city!
    Francesca Toso

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  21. Thanks Oscar for a wonderful article. Loved the pictures. I visited Spain - Barcelona and Valencia and enjoyed every day we spent there. I have some good and some horrible memories of my stay there. For one my daughter got robbed of her iPhone as soon as she boarded the metro in Barcelona ๐Ÿ˜Ÿand secondly I fell flat on my face while crossing the road and had a swollen face throughout the remainder of our stay๐Ÿ˜Ÿ
    Nevertheless enjoyed the rest of our visit ๐Ÿ˜Š
    I would love to visit again and welcome the idea of a reunion

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  22. Great story indeed, Oscar, making Spain a wonderful country to visit and to reside. Spanish promoters of tourism should read your story
    With you both a happy stay and being able to host a get together in this fascinating counntry
    Baquer Namazi

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  23. Thank you for a lovely piece on Valencia, Oscar. You succeeded in conveying the soul of the city and the people, tempting so many colleagues to visit. Waiting for you to return safely from the US to have our mini reunion and consider a possible xUnicef reunion. Saad

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  24. Dearb Oscar, Consider me among the "yes" voters, please. All the best. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

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  25. Lovely story Oscar. Every time I see pictures of your travels in Spain- and the food you eat!- I feel like hopping on a plane to Valencia! I would definitely join in a reunion in Valencia/Madrid. !

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  26. Dear Oscar
    Thanks for sharing . Indeed Spain is a beautiful and socially attractive country. I would welcome and be part of reunion in Valencia or Barcelona.
    Warm regards to all
    Michel

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  27. Dear Oscar and Susan,

    How wonderful that you have found the one place on earth, where you feel you really belong. It is the greatest of discoveries and you are indeed fortunate. I wish you both a very happy and long life in Valencia, which seems absolutely magical.

    Love,

    Anoja Wijeyesekera

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  28. Dear Oscar,

    I am happy for you and Susan for the glorious retirement life both of you are enjoying. I thank God for you both for the privilege. Compared that to what is obtainable in my country emerges two extremes. I was salivating at each state of your story. I wish you full recovery and more grace for elongated life and enjoyment and heaven at last.

    My love for you both but Jesus Christ loves you most.

    Dr. Mrs. Mercy Opara

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