I arrived in Jakarta in January 1988 to take up my new assignment as Programme Coordinator for Education, Advocacy, Social Mobilization, Gender and Programme Support Services (i.e. “all the rest” besides health, nutrition, water & sanitation, and area and kampung services). I was immediately introduced to my new colleagues in my section. They were all formidable and professional, as I soon learned, but one person in particular stood out and while she formally reported to me she really became my mentor, teacher and friend throughout the almost 7 years I was to spend in Indonesia. When we were introduced, Ibu Memet had retired from her international career with UNICEF and was now a consultant with UNICEF Indonesia. According to Mary Racelis in her chapter of “Jim Grant UNICEF Visionary”, Ibu Memet had been recruited to UNICEF in the mid 1970s to develop the family planning aspects of UNICEF’s work on maternal and child health. At the time, UNICEF largely engaged with women in thei...